Its 2010 ladies, lets change the mentality. Just because he couldn’t hold out and satisfy you, does not mean that it has to be over.

Isn’t it just like him? All you wanted to do was to spend some quality time together. You know, talk, watch a movie, and cuddle a little bit. Instead what does he do? He starts rubbing your knees, and slowly caressing his hand in between your thighs. Then soft kisses as he reaches for your breasts and you playfully tell him to stop, but he keeps going.

One thing leads to another and in no time, the clothes come off. He pulls you in, and you open up to allow him to get on top. You can feel all of him as he glides in. You are getting wetter and enjoying the groove. Then he starts to go fast, then faster and before you know it, it’s over.

He flops over, and as you are laying there trying to process what just happened, he looks at you and mumbles something you didn’t quiet understand. You ask him to repeat it hoping he says, “Are you ready for round two,” but instead he asks, “Did you cum”. (knowing damn well you didn’t)

Well ladies guess what; there is no need to get mad or aggravated when this happens anymore. Just guide him to finishing what he started. Come on ladies…he has fingers doesn’t he…he has a tongue doesn’t he?  If he were really interested in pleasing you, then he should be able to make use of them until he’s back standing at attention again.

If he doesn’t have the interest in finishing the job and he just wants to roll over and go to sleep then I say take matters into your own hands. Yes, am talking about Masturbating (right in front of his punkass) don’t think about it just do it, and If you have some toys, even better. (Be sure to let it all out very loudly.)

Now if you take my advice and do this, one of three things will likely happen.

1. 1. He will become really turned on from the sounds he hears and will want to join in on your party.

It’s cool if he does; just don’t allow him to join too quickly. Tease him a bit and get yours or at least get really close, because all that extra excitement could cause him to disappoint you again.

1. 2. He will sleep right through it.

Good for him then, let him sleep. It’s his loss not yours, plus he wont have a clue as to why you are so damn smiley the following day.

1. 3. He will get mad at you.

Let’s face it, some men are cry babies. Don’t worry about it. He is just mad because his ego is bruised. Personally I say the hell with him if he decides to react this way.  You satisfied him, it’s only right he does the same for you.  If he refuses to, then he shouldn’t cry like a little baby about you taking matters into your own hands…literally.

(For those who have not yet discovered the pleasures of masturbation, or are uneasy about the idea, we will discuss its importance and benefits in the near future.)