Are black men really that much better in bed than other men are? or is this just another untrue stereotype about black men. Personlly, I believe that great lovers are made and not born; that ones ethnicity has absolutely nothing to do with how well they perform in the bedroom.

I am sure that you know or have heard your share of sexual stereotypes about black men so I wont bother to repeat them. Yet as a black man, I do have to admit that it's nice to know that we at least have one good stereotype to counter all the bad ones. (whether true or untrue)

Quick true story

I had a little free time this weekend so I decided to finally watch "The Heartbreak kid". I have had the DVD for at least a year now; a friend let me borrow it. (Check it out if you haven't because the movie is hilarious.) There is a part in the movie where Ben Stiller (Eddie Cantrow) and his new wife Lila go on their honey moon, and they are having sex for the first time. As they are doing it, she starts screaming out all these crazy things she wants him to do to her. (a lot of wild things) one of them was "F*ck me like a black guy, Eddie, come on!" (very funny scene).

You are probably asking yourself, ok, so why is this relevant right?

Well I'll tell you why! you ready?...It's because a similar thing happened to me. Maybe not the same exact way, but I remember hooking up with a girl a few years back, and just before we were about to... she made a statement that made me "freeze". (I wont tell you what she said because a gentlemen does not kiss and tell) but i will admit that her statement made me feel very pressured to perform for my race.

In my Mind during the time Freeze

The brief moment of silence went a little like this in my mind...I heard a voice say...Billy! this is the moment of truth. This is no longer about you. If you do this right, every black man out there will thank you for keeping the legacy alive, but if you F up, iiiiiF you F up, Shame on You!

Luckily for her and for all the black men out there..."I work very well under pressure"


Question

Do you think that black men are better in bed? or is this another untrue stereotype about black men.