You love him so much and you want to please him. He has always been there for you. He picks you up when you are down. He is the yin to your yang. Blah blah blah - yadi yadi yada.

You are not exactly thrilled with the idea of making a sextape but you feel like you owe it to him. He is a really nice guy; he truly cares about you. Plus, one of your friends recently made a sextape with her boyfriend and she says they had a lot of fun doing it.

You two have been dating for a whole eight months now so you can trust this guy. He will never put your private life out into the streets; he respects you and he will never betray your trust right? 

Wrong!!!!!!!!

Sorry to sound negative but this is the real world and most relationships don't last. Lovers turn into enemies - angels turn into demons.

If you still don't get it then let me be blunt. You are not Kim: You are not Paris. Your sextape wont make you famous or a million dollars. what you will get is heartbreak and embarrassment when you find out that the idiot you made the tape for shared you with his boys, and any other pervert interested in watching.

He received high fives and an inflated ego and all you have in return is a fist full of tears. Maybe now you will finally understand why his boys tried to flirt with you every change they got.

** I am not here to judge or tell you what to do. If you are extremely open minded when it comes to sex  then go for it. Make your sextape and enjoy it. However, if you care about keeping your sex life private then think twice before you ever agree to make a sextape**